Over Time I Have Learned
Over time, I’ve learned the subtle difference between taking someone’s hand and shackling a soul.
Over time, I’ve learned that love doesn’t mean leaning on someone and companionship doesn’t mean security.
Over time … I began to understand that kisses are not contracts or gifts of promise.
Over time, I have learned that being with someone because they offer you a good future means that sooner or later you will want to come back to your past.
Over time, I have come to understand that whoever is able to love you with your flaws, without trying to change you, can bring you all the happiness you want.
Over time, you realize that if you are by this person’s side only to accompany your loneliness, you will inevitably end up not wanting to see them again.
Over time, you realize that true friends are worth a lot more than any amount of money.
Over time, I have come to understand that true friends can be counted on the fingers of one hand, and whoever does not fight for them, sooner or later, will be surrounded by false friendships.
Over time, I have learned that words spoken in a moment of anger can still hurt the one you hurt, throughout life.
Over time, I learned that everyone apologizes, but forgiveness is only for great souls. ..
Over time, I’ve come to understand that if you’ve seriously hurt a friend, the friendship will probably never be the same again.
Over time, you realize that no matter how happy you are with your friends, one day you will mourn for those you let go.
Over time, you realize that every experience you have with each person is irreplaceable.
Over time, you realize that whoever humiliates or despises a human being, sooner or later will suffer the same humiliations.
Over time, I have learned to build all of my courses because the terrain of tomorrow is too uncertain to plan.
Over time, I’ve learned that rushing things will lead to the ending not being as you hoped.
Over time, you realize that the best was not the future, but the weather you were living right now.
Over time, I have learned that trying to forgive or ask for forgiveness, to say that you love, that you miss someone…. in front of a grave … it no longer makes any sense …
But unfortunately… we understand this over time.
Jorge Luis Borges
So is the school of life. It teaches you that it is not the darkness that you fear, but what is in it and that you are not afraid of heights, but of the fall.
Life also helps you understand that it’s not that you don’t trust the people around you, but that you are afraid of being rejected, and that your fear is not love, but that you are afraid of being rejected. is not to be loved.
And if you don’t want to let someone go, your problem is, you don’t accept that that person is already gone.
It is all part of life. It is that part that we have to learn on our own and that hurts because you learn from hard knocks and disappointments.
It’s a pain that keeps you going until it subsides and that’s when you go deeper and climb one more rung on your ladder.
Deep down you know that whoever is reluctant to accept change is doomed to an inner death.
This is why you must love your place in the world, love life more than anything, and thank the blows that you are given because they will make you more human.
Be consistent and fight with all your might against the disease of certainty, don’t just live for the future and lose your sense of humor no matter what.
These are the lessons you will never be able to forget because they differentiate and define you.
Life tells you nothing, it teaches you everything, and it is such a good teacher that when you do not learn the lesson, it repeats it. ..
